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The Present of Presence: Embracing Stillness


In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to become entangled in a web of thoughts, distractions, and emotions. The constant influx of information and stimuli can make it difficult for us to truly connect with our inner selves, often leading to stress, anxiety, and a diminished sense of well-being. Mindfulness, the practice of being present and aware of our thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations, can offer a transformative pathway to inner peace and a deeper understanding of the self. In this blog, we'll explore the importance of being present, how to recognise our thoughts as mere thoughts, and how to cultivate stillness within ourselves.

"In the stillness of being, we find our true selves, untethered by the fleeting waves of thought and embraced by the infinite sea of presence." Julian Jenkins

Part 1: The Power of Presence

When we become fully present in the moment, we begin to experience life in a profoundly different way. By focusing our attention on the here and now, we are better able to appreciate the beauty of our surroundings, connect with others on a deeper level, and tap into the wellspring of inner peace and wisdom that lies within each of us.

Mindfulness is not about suppressing or denying our thoughts but rather learning to observe them without judgment. As we become more aware of our thoughts and emotions, we can start to see them as separate from our true selves. This understanding is key to cultivating a sense of presence and inner stillness.

Part 2: Thoughts are Not Reality

One of the core principles of mindfulness is the understanding that our thoughts are not reality. Our minds have a tendency to create narratives and stories, often driven by past experiences, fears, or desires. While these thoughts may feel real and all-consuming, it's important to remember that they are just mental constructs.

By practicing mindfulness, we can learn to observe our thoughts as they arise and simply let them go, without getting caught up in their content. This shift in perspective allows us to see our thoughts for what they truly are: transient and ephemeral mental events, rather than objective truths or reflections of our true selves.

Part 3: Cultivating Stillness Within

Finding the stillness within ourselves is a journey that starts with a single mindful breath. As we become more attuned to our breath and bodily sensations, we can gradually let go of our thoughts, judgments, and expectations, allowing us to fully immerse ourselves in the present moment.

Here are some tips to help you cultivate inner stillness:

  1. Create a daily mindfulness practice: Set aside time each day to practice mindfulness, whether it's through formal meditation, mindful movement, or simply taking a few moments to tune into your breath and bodily sensations.

  2. Cultivate self-compassion: Recognise that thoughts and emotions are a natural part of the human experience, and treat yourself with kindness and understanding when they arise.

  3. Embrace impermanence: Acknowledge that thoughts, emotions, and sensations come and go, and allow yourself to be present with whatever arises without clinging to or resisting it.

  4. Practice non-judgment: Observe your thoughts and emotions without labeling them as good or bad, and let go of any expectations about how your mindfulness practice "should" be.


The present moment holds the key to unlocking our true potential and finding inner peace. Through the practice of mindfulness, we can learn to recognise our thoughts as just thoughts, separate from our true selves, and cultivate the stillness within. As we journey into the present, we'll discover that the greatest gift we can give ourselves is the present of presence: the opportunity to fully experience and appreciate the richness and beauty of life, just as it is.

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